Why Do Families Choose Ash Scattering?
There are many reasons why a family may choose to do an ash scattering. A few of the most common reasons are wanting to be environmentally friendly, not identifying with a specific religion or a particular ritual, wanting a more personalized sendoff, and being connected to a specific location. Ash scattering also is commonly linked to the idea of returning the individual to nature or freeing their spirit. Whatever is your reason, spreading ashes can be a beautiful and meaningful way of saying goodbye.
Where to Scatter Ashes
Rules of Ash Scattering
You should scatter your loved one’s ashes somewhere that reminds you of them or that they liked to visit. However, there are several rules regarding where you can and cannot scatter ashes. For the most part, you can scatter ashes in places that aren’t private property and on your own property. But you may need a permit, and there are certain rules for different areas, so we’ll go over a few general guidelines:
- If someone else owns the land, you need written permission to scatter the ashes there.
- Check with your local government before scattering ashes in public parks or other public locations.
- Most U.S. National Parks allow you to scatter ashes, but you need a permit first.
- You can ask permission to scatter ashes in places such as sports arenas and amusement parks, but they often decline these requests.
- The Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) allows ash scatterings in oceans from a plane or boat. However, you must be at least three nautical miles from the shore and need to contact the EPA within 30 days.
Overall, use your best judgment, ask permission when necessary, and be respectful when scattering ashes. If you’re unsure, our staff is happy to help you find a legal and meaningful ash scattering location.
Ash Scattering Ceremony
Depending on the ash scattering method, some ceremony types may be better suited than others. For example, with a casting, you may choose to have a formal ceremony with the releasing of wildflower seeds, biodegradable paper lanterns, or another environmentally friendly option in addition to your loved one’s ashes. Or, if you do a water ash scattering, you can still hold a releasing ceremony with one of the objects mentioned above where everyone can be present. The ceremony agenda can include readings, songs, eulogies, or other personalized elements.
Ash Scattering Ideas
Ash scattering ceremonies can be personalized so the family finds a better way to honor the memories of their loved one.
Depending on the ash scattering method, some ceremony types may be better suited than others. For example, with casting, you may choose to have a formal ceremony with the release of wildflower seeds, biodegradable paper lanterns, or another environmentally friendly option in addition to your loved one’s ashes. Or, if you do a water ash scattering, you can still hold a releasing ceremony with one of the objects mentioned above where everyone can be present. The ceremony agenda can include readings, songs, eulogies, or other personalized elements.
The most common ash scattering methods are casting, trenching, water, and raking. See below some ideas that most fit your loved one’s personality and wishes.
This is the most typical ash scattering method where the ashes are released into the wind and dispersed across an area of land or water. It’s a symbolic way to say goodbye to your loved ones while honoring their memory. It also allows them to explore the special place you chose for the ash scattering, whether it is a park, by the ocean, or in a stadium. You can organize a more intimate ceremony, where one family member releases the ashes, or make it a group ceremony. When doing this, make sure you know the wind direction and release the ashes downwind.
For trenching, you dig a trench or hole in the ground and scatter the ashes inside. Then, your family can cover the hole together. Oftentimes, families dig a significant shape, such as a heart or their loved one’s initials. As for the location, it can be under a tree, in a flower bed, or another purposeful location. Another popular form of trenching is a ringing ceremony where a trench is dug in a circle around a tree or something else of significance. Or you can put an important object in the center of the circle, such as a candle, photo, or memento. This particular method is similar to a traditional burial, and it can be ideal to families that would like a burial but don’t want to commit to a full traditional ceremony.
A water ash scattering is exactly what it sounds like; it’s when you scatter the ashes across a body of water, such as the ocean, a lake, or a river. Typically, you place the ashes inside a water-soluble urn that’s placed in the water. Then, the urn begins to dissolve after a few minutes and slowly releases the ashes.
Other Unique Sendoffs
If you’re looking for a more unique sendoff to show off your loved one’s personality, then one of these options may be right for you. You can incorporate your loved one's ashes into fireworks, balloons, eternal reefs, and other unique tributes. Although our funeral home may or may not have the resources available to assist with these types of ash scatterings, there are many companies throughout the U.S. that specialize in these types of unique sendoffs.
Ash Scattering Services We Offer
Our knowledgeable and experienced staff can assist your family in planning a beautiful ash scattering ceremony that honors your loved one’s life in Mobile, AL . We can help you choose a legal ash scattering location, select an ash scattering method, and plan the ceremony details. If you have any questions or concerns, please don’t hesitate to contact us.